I have hope! Hope that Dragon will get off in time for a scene. The ginger is in the refrigerator, paddles and floggers ready. This will be the first time we have combined impact play with figging. Both are intense. It may be too much sensation but it is worth a try.
We have been talking about alternate punishments. Things that can be done away from home. Or even at home if spanking isn't possible. He has used time out for a while. Funny, it never feels like a punishment. It is a relief but just what I need.