Friday, August 22, 2014

corsets in the news

Kim Kardishan waist training?

NOT!  Just click on the NOT to read the article on Yahoo news.

Now that is a strong opinion for me.  Why?  This is the store she is promoting and from the sad looking garment she is wearing, she purchased it from this page.

Oh yes!  I am a horrible snark.  This fashion disaster could not go without a comment.

Why is it so bad?

The items sold here do not have a steel busk.  They don't lace.  Nope.  They have four rows of hooks.  The same kind you see on a bra.

Fancy underwear?  Yes
Corset? No

I could be generous and call it a bustier but it doesn't cover the breasts.

It is super cheap and it shows.

For a quality corset, you are going to pay several hundred dollars to thousands.  You can start out cheaper but they aren't going to fit as nice as a good quality custom made corset. A good place to start is Corset Story. Similar in price to the recommended page but they are corsets.  I call this the try it out page.

Real quality comes from custom made and that costs big $$$$

PS.  I LOVE corsets and corset training.
  I make my own and they fit like a glove.  If a glove could take 3-6 inched off your waist and push those droopy boobs up.

Sorry for the rant.  Reflux has me up again.  Nausea, burning, yuck. I am waiting for the Zantac to help.

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Early morning surprise

Dragon loves to hit the snooze button. He has 3 hits before he has to get up.  It was after the third hit.  He rolled over and said "I want you."  

Is there a better way to start the day?

Out of necessity it was a quickie.  He had to get ready for work and I needed to fix breakfast.  Fast but oh so good.

No spankings this week. We had company on the only evening we had available.  Oh well.  Maybe tomorrow. I really want a long, hard session but I keep calling red just as it starts to get good.  That moment right before the endorphins kick in.  It hurts but I know if I can get past it, it feels great.

I gotta stop doing that.  I want to fly!

Sunday, August 17, 2014

A Need

I have a need I can not touch. A tingle that won't go away.  I crave Dragon's touch and I can't have it.  When I am with him, it never gets this bad.  His hand is always ready to sooth my body and bring me pleasure....

Why do I always want him more when he is at work?  It has nothing to do with the old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder".  Nope.  It is just that I miss his touch so very much, my body burns for him.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014


Why should I feel guilty?  Why should I be judged?

I lost my constant companion.  My friend and helper.  My Dane loved me as much as I loved him.  When he got sick, I took care of him.  When it became obvious that he was suffering, I loved him even more. I said good bye.

A year latter I was ready to begin my search for another friend.  After researching several breeds, I applied for a purebreed dog but I didn't stop looking.

 Every week I went to the pound.  Every week, I left with tears in my eyed.. I wanted to take all of the sweet puppies home.

But I can't.  I need the one...

I made yet another trip to the shelter.  I honestly didn't expect to find the dog.  But I kept coming back to one wiggle butt.  She was too old. Too small.  Too energetic.  But I just couldn't leave her there.

In less than a week she learned how to walk on a leash.  She learned the many commands I needed her to learn faster than any dog I have ever trained.  She was so smart but I never connected to her.

Her prey drive is so strong that training will not solve her one major problem.  She wants to eat Dragon's cat and our pet bunny.  She doesn't bark and growl.  Oh no.  Silently, she stalks them and attacks. She is a hunter.  This is something I could not have known when I found her in the shelter.

Finally, the decision was made to find her a new home.  One without cats or bunnies.  I tried my friends on Facebook first.  Within three days she had a new home.  She is going to a disabled man who will benefit from her many skills.

I still need to teach her a few more skills.  Fetch the phone, get help and pick up dropped items.  She will go to her new home just in time for Christmas.

 Now what do I have? An acquaintance shaming me for buying a high dollar pure bred dog.

What do I have to say to that?


You don't know me.  If you did, you would know that my family has fostered over 180 dogs and cats.  All of them with problems.  I lost count at 180.  I kept most of them until they were adopted.

How dare you lecture me on the over crowded shelters, homeless animals, puppy mills and irresponsible pet owners.

I have 4 dogs in my home right now.  3 of them are rescues.  I had to purchase a dog in Germany.  They didn't let Americans adopt.  3 of them are seniors.  The one dog under a year old is now being trained to do a very important job for a disabled man I love very much.

Even the cat is a rescue.

So get off your high horse.

The dog I am buying comes from a proven blood line.  I know about how tall she will get.  I know she will be strong.  I know she will be calm and alloof.  I will have support from the breeder I know she will be independent and stubborn.

Everything I know about this mastiff is an unknown in a shelter dog.

Do I feel guilty?  Hell no.

Saturday, August 9, 2014

the crud

This summer cold put a pause on play.  First Dragon and then the rest of us started getting sick.  I feel good during the day but by the time dragon gets home from work the concrete is back.  Some strange, evil person fills my head with concrete and makes me miserable.

We both feel a little better every day.  This to shall pass.  The honey dos are growing.  Dragon had a dresser to build, his jeep needs repair and now my little car needs an engine rebuild.  It never ends.

I try to keep the house clean, laundry done and the yard cut.  One thing at a time.  Step by step.  That gives him more time when he is home.  Love my man just a little.  Hopefully, I won't always have to depend on him for car repairs.  One step at a time.  I am learning.

Busy day.  I feel like crap but have a long to do list.  Time to get a wiggle.  100+ temps today. It is going to be a hot one.

Monday, August 4, 2014

Prove it

Nope. I didn't need proof but Dragon provided it.

My backside burns.

After I worked outside this morning, he decided it was time to play.

 First came the ginger while I showered.  Talk about uncomfortable but I managed. Just before I dressed, he removed it.  Wowza.  It wasn't the strongest stuff he had used but it burned.

He took my hand and led me to the garage. Out came the paddles.  My backside was on fire.

Call the fire department!

I am feeling a bit warm.

To top it off, he took me. All pleasure for him.  Nothing but burning need for me.   Love it!  Denial is part of the game. He will let me squirm before he scratches my itch.  For now it is stinging, burning need. Delicious

Yep. He is back.

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Summer Cold?


Dragon came home dragging his feet a few days ago.  Runny nose, headache, sore throat.  And he blames allergies?

Now my asthma is almost impossible to control with a head ache and sore throat.  Fun stuff.

Do you think he will finally admit he is sick?

All spanking, love making and fun are put on hold for a few days.

Dragon is one grumpy lizard.  I'll be keeping the dust bunnies company until further notice.