I got this question as an anonymous reply to "spanked to tears"
girls help me out here i want my hoh to spank to tears becouse i cheated 5 times ! i feel so guilty that i know i need a severe spanking but when i ask they say i forgive you and could not bear to spank you to tears how do i get them mad enough to spank me to tears
Sorry, dear ano but you miss the point of DD. You don't make your husband "DO" anything. This lifestyle is about submitting to him in the natural order of marriage. It helps open up communication and brings you both closer.
You say you cheated more than once. I would say that you aren't committed to your relationship and have bigger problems than DD can solve. He can't spank thank kind of guilt away. You deserve to wallow in whatever you are feeling. You don't deserve a spanking, you deserve a divorce. Be grateful for the mercy he is showing you and get some counseling. Preferably with your spouse.
To anyone out there wanting to be spanked. NEVER. Did I shout that? Yes I did. NEVER try to get your husband mad enough to spank you. Spanking out of anger is ALWAYS a bad thing and can lead to abuse and get your hurt. Spanking should always be done out of love and respect.
This concludes this edition of Dear Abby, the DD way!