I found out that a dear friend from high school shares many of my interests. She was wearing a slave collar in a photo. I immediately recognized it for what it is. Imagine my excitement? A real life friend I can really talk too. Yippee. I don’t know that she is into DD but people who are involved in alternative lifestyles are typically more open to the idea of a husband spanking his wife.
Wiggles and giggles. It made a very long week just a little easier to deal with.
My week didn’t start going down hill until Wednesday evening. A line of high powered people don’t need the authority they have. With a one sided story, punishment was handed out to my husband, he was allowed to say nothing in his defense. So very wrong. All I can say is KARMA. What goes around comes around. I have noticed that people like that ruin themselves in the end. I don’t need to do anything to get my revenge. I get a ring side seat while they dig their own grave.
Yep. I have had a few days this week to remember why I like four legged furry critters more that most people. I can’t believe how the gossip mill has escalated what really happened. I can’t believe how much this whole incident has blown up. It is ridiculous.
Hate people. Love dogs.
My Dragon knows just how to put my mind at ease. Just before bed time he asked me a question.
“hot, warm or cool.”
It took me a few minutes to figure out what he was asking….. Think think think…..
A bubble bath! ! !
Hot! It has been a cool day.. Ok. It was in the 80s but after a string of days over 100 it felt positively cold to me.
He fixed a bath overflowing with bubbles! ! ! I sank down into the water with relief. The water went from a little too hot, to just right, warm and finally too cool to be comfortable.
When I finished getting ready for bed, Dragon led me to the bed. He folded the sheet down, stacked the pillows to his satisfaction and I knew what to do. I arranged myself over the pillows and he preceded to lower my stress level quite successfully.
One stinging swat after another, my body relaxed. I could feel my mind letting go of all the negative crap that hit so suddenly. He is there for me. He is head of this house. I had a firm reminder that it isn’t my job to worry. It is his job to shoulder these burdens. It is my job to be his wife. To love him and be there for him at the end of the day. My job is hard enough without taking on part of his.
Stinging swat after stinging swat. The paddle fell over and over again. Never too hard. Just hard enough to leave a good sting behind and remind me that he is mine and I am his. We made love. Tender. Gentile.
Bubble bath, paddle, love making. What a evening! I fell asleep in his loving arms.
I remember his arms around me as he whispered words of love into my ear. The next thing I remember is my great dane waking me seconds before the alarm clock buzzed. His huge nose less than an inch from mine. Giggles. It was a good way to start my day.
One more day to deal with before the weekend. I will say a prayer for my husband as he tries to resolve the issues he faces at work. I will work hard today to make his home a sanctuary for him. I want him to have a restful evening after a very long week.
Love my man.