Monday, July 21, 2014


Dragon has declared this to be reset week.  With a few days off it is the perfect time to do it.  We are settled in and making bills. The kids are back in activities and the chaos level is set to high.  Situation Normal.  Now it is time to get back on track.

Dragon mentioned BDSM, kink, D/s and DD.  We had a long talk about work, schedules and just being to busy.  But when we are to busy to take care of us, everyone pays the price.

I need his dominance and so does he.  He needs my submisdion as much as i need to submit.  He needs a place where he is in control and I need a place that I am not in control at all.

It all works together to make us both better and to keep our marriage secure.

Last night he was to tired to take care of business until I got into bed completely nude.  His tune changed fast.  I didn't get the much needed punishment but we spent over an hour making love.  It has been a long time since he pushed my limits so hard.  Just WOW

and here I thought he wasn't listening and didn't want this lifestyle anymore.

Fooled me!

There won't be any time for spanking this evening or tomorrow.  That hasn't stopped Dragon today.  As he was leaving for work he gave me a to do list and a reminder to obey.  Toothpaste on the clit burns but doesn't last long.  He left with a smile on his face and my lady parts burning.

A girl can hope.

The pantry is getting reorganized.  That has turned into a group effort. I did my half and now the kids are working away in there.  Now it is time to work on the curtains for the camper.  Lots to do.


  1. Go for it. Interesting - toothpaste on the clit, that's a new one - very inventive.
    Good luck with the curtains.

    1. Dragon saw it on Fetlife and decided to try it. Not much of a punishment but it keeps my mind on him.

  2. Good luck to both of you with the reset. Goodness...toothpaste on the lady parts...Dragon sure is creative. I am sure your curtains are going to be beautiful. Sending positive energy that you and Dragon get some spanking and play soon.

    Hugs and Blessings...

    1. I hope it works out this time. Fingers crossed for some play time!!