Question? Answered!

From Janey
What do you find the hardest part of the DD dynamic?

I'll answer this two ways.

First, I asked Dragon what the hardest part for him was.   It was getting his head around the idea of hitting a girl.   Yes, I asked for it and wanted it but....  BOYS DON'T HIT GIRLS!

Right?

He was already head of our home.  That never was in question.   Even before I admitted it, I was probably the most submissive wife you could imagine. I was already obedient.   It wasn't something we negotiated.  It just was.

Once we started having fun with impact play, he became a total spamk-of.

For me,  it is submitting to the punishment.   Baring my backside, bending over and taking the punishment I earned.

Silly I know.  I asked for this.  I talked him into it.  Then, when the time comes I can't do it?

That is pretty much it.   Sometimes I have to red out because the fear is to much.   If I know that I earned a punishment, I'll suck it up and take it.

Dragon would never hurt me.  He wouldn't push harder than I can take but still I am afraid.   He is gentile, kind and understanding.  But still I am afraid.

I don't know what I would do without my Dragon.   Love my man just a little

I'll be happy to answer any other questions you may have. Just ask.  :-)