What do you find the hardest part of the DD dynamic?
I'll answer this two ways.
First, I asked Dragon what the hardest part for him was. It was getting his head around the idea of hitting a girl. Yes, I asked for it and wanted it but.... BOYS DON'T HIT GIRLS!
He was already head of our home. That never was in question. Even before I admitted it, I was probably the most submissive wife you could imagine. I was already obedient. It wasn't something we negotiated. It just was.
Once we started having fun with impact play, he became a total spamk-of.
For me, it is submitting to the punishment. Baring my backside, bending over and taking the punishment I earned.
Silly I know. I asked for this. I talked him into it. Then, when the time comes I can't do it?
That is pretty much it. Sometimes I have to red out because the fear is to much. If I know that I earned a punishment, I'll suck it up and take it.
Dragon would never hurt me. He wouldn't push harder than I can take but still I am afraid. He is gentile, kind and understanding. But still I am afraid.
I don't know what I would do without my Dragon. Love my man just a little
I'll be happy to answer any other questions you may have. Just ask. :-)