I went to confession for the very first time last week. I was terrified but it turned out that it wasn't so bad. I know the priest so he isn't that scary. He is about my age so I don't see him as a father figure or a child.
So what is the problem? I have discovered this thing called Catholic Guilt. The blessing and penance just wasn't enough.
That is the easy part. I am a spanko and have been in a dd relationship to long.
I talked it over with Dragon and he came to the same conclusion that I did. I need the physical correction. Not necessarily a punishment but something to clean my self conscious.
Next time I go to confession, I'll do my penance from the priest. I'll say my prayers and then I'll face Dragon. He will be fair but he knows what my heart needs.
Love my Dragon just a little.