Dragon has been using some alternative punishments.
In December he used a ginger fig. It burned. It was uncomfortable but there is just one problem. I love to hate figging. After we made love I had to ask if that was a punishment or funishment? We decided on the second option.
This week he used the flogger. No warm up. Hard strikes from the very first swing. He used the whip that I can the snake because it has a nasty bite. By the time he was done, I was in sub space. Was that a fail or a success? I'm not sure.
He uses icy hot and toothpaste on my button when I need a heated reminder to be kind. Some situations need that little extra something to keep things under control. Like maybe my mouth and my southern creativity? This one is very effective. It even helps me stay calm in the crowded mall. With icy hot burning my bits I can stay for hours. Without it I am done in less than 30 minutes.
Kneeling isn't always an option and again, I like it. Standing in the corner just feels silly but I think that is the point. Dragon avoids both of those. Clothes pins are another punishment he hasn't used yet. He has considered them a few times but changed his mind. I HATE clips. Nipples or clit, don't like them at all.
He has used lines before. Written with my dumb hand to make sure I spent enough time sitting on my sore backside. Coloring in a child's coloring book is another common punishment he uses. Act like a child, get treated like one. No color pencils for me. Nope, fat crayons. Even a fat pencil for the lines.
Loss of panties is his favorite punishment. Very uncomfortable for me especially in public. He discreetly reaches into my waist, pulls up one side of my panties and cuts. Garbage. When the kids eventually move our he tells me that it won't just be my panties that I will do without.
Dragon has finally figured out that my backside isn't fragile. I can take a hard swing with the belt, paddle or flogger. He has figured out that there is more than one way to punish. I am looking forward to what he comes up with next.