Yes, we are now the proud owners of a Violet Wand. It can go from a mild tingle to a sharp sting. So far our collection of electrodes is limited. We have the three that came with the kit and the mylar flogger. We will expand that collection one piece at a time.
I am working hard on submitting to him. Tearing down the last barriers between us. Slow but steady. One little inch at a time. No matter how embarrassing a command may be or how uncomfortable it is, he wants my immediate submission. He wants obedience even when it is hard.
I understand why. It is for our benefit. Ours. Not just mine. He needs to know that I will obey in play so that he knows I'll obey when it is important. I'll admit that it is easier that way. To already be in the habit of obeying doesn't make it automatic but it does mean that I'm more likely to do what he wants.
Dragon is home from work. Time to give him attention instead of the kindle.