I know it probably sounds odd to most but age play is a big part of what we do. It isn't always obvious but it makes me feel so loved. Describing it is hard but I shall try.
We don't really have big scenes where I am his little girl. It is more in whispered words. He will dress me. Picking out even childish panties to wear under the pretty clothes he has chosen for me. When we shower together he bathes me. Head to toe, I am not allowed to help. He dresses me in simple night clothes. Nothing sexy. Simple, lacy cotton.
A punishment session is all business and no play at all. Other kinds of spanking tend to be a bit more creative. Morning wake up swats come with a lecture for his little girl and a list of chores to get done. Fun spankings are almost always age play. His naughty little girl getting swats for silly things. Even harder maintenance spankings. We have used corner time but only in play.
We have used natural family planning for years
Long before we started going to a Catholic church. Age Play is even part of tracking my fertility. He takes my morning temp. Later in the day he does the cervical check. Height, opening, mucous. It is a very humbling experience and immediately puts me in a more submissive state of mind.
When we are around other people it doesn't stop. In restaurants he orders my food and cuts my meat. Holds my hand and whispers naughty things in my ear.
Age Play gives him control over me in an out of control world. It lets me give up that control and the responsibilities that can sometimes feel like a burden in every day life.
Most people never even notice. Not even those closest to us. We keep it discrete but it is there. It is just another way that we take care of each others needs.
Since I have been out of town we have been talking about taking our more private again play up a notch. Little girl clothes. Absolute loss of privacy. And enforcing the no panties rule at night and at home. Part of the plan is little girl play clothes. Frilly dresses and cartoon themed short sets. Don't know. I think it is going to come down to a submission issue.
After so long without you close by, Dragon may need that as much if not more than you do, Rose. Hope you two are able to physically reconnect soon.
ReplyDeleteHugs and blessings...Cat
Hopefully soon! We both need touch and the dynamic that comes with ttwd
DeleteWe don't have any outward signs of ageplay, eg clothing or anything, but i do so love playing with my stuffies with BIKSS and he engages with them with me :)
ReplyDeleteother than that i think it's just my language with him, the way i use my words, the sounds i make around him.
I do hope it works out well for you and brings you closer together.
I love what we have done so far and the routines he has put into place. So far panties and night gowns are the clothing we use. It is great to be fun to see how far he can push before I use a safe word.
DeletePs for the first time ever I looked age play up on the internet. FYI!!! What we do looks nothing like that. Ick.
ReplyDeleteTo each, his own but that mess isn't for me.
haha i know what you mean. i think, tho, that like a lot of things, it's a spectrum really, and we all use bits and pieces of the available assortment of ideas and to varying degrees - depending on comfort levels.
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