Sunday, January 31, 2016

The Attraction of Rope

What keeps me coming back for more bondage? I think it is time to share a little bit of it on my little blog.

Sorry.  No photos.  My hands are all tied up and my Dragon just a little busy.

For rope play, first you have to absolutely trust the person who has the rope. There is nothing worse in this life than realising you are completely helpless and trusted the wrong person.  If you don't have that trust, you can't fully experience the pleasure of the ropes.  Waiting for him to cross a hard limit.

Rope is all about feeling.  Feeling the rope against bare skin.  The tightness and texture.  It is emotional.  Helpless.  Powerful.  Humiliating.  Restricting.  Freedom!  Security. Safety.  Risk taking.

Do you see a little conflict there?

You have to be safe.  Rope can do permanent, lasting damage.  Don't just get rope and go at it. Find someone with real knowledge and learn how to play safe.

All tied up, I don't have to be in control.  I don't have to think about anything other than the rope and what I am feeling. Love it.

Everything comes back to rope.  This is where our kinky adventures began.


  1. Hello! We are new to ttwd (six months in) but are quickly discovering we both have an interest in exploration. I get so deep in the "feeling" of things. The way he unzips my dress, his belt wrapped around my wrists, his breath on my neck as he whispers in my ear what he will do to me. Might be time to buy some rope! Amy

    1. Jute rope has to be prepared but a good,soft nylon or polyester rope from the hardware store works great. 1/4 - 1/2 inch is what we use, in 30 foot sections. It is absolutely worth the time and effort to learn ropes. Have fun and play safe.

  2. I am happy that you and Dragon are getting back to the point where you can play a bit more. I'll leave the ropes to you two...have seen some lovely pics but not something I have any desire to experience. ;) Have fun!

    Hugs and blessings...Cat