That is a question I saw on another blog and thought it deserved a post.
For me, it really depends on why I am being spanked. For a fun spanking, I'll set up our play space. Paddles, belt, lotion, toys, yoga mat and anything else that looks fun. And thenwe wait. For Dragon to be off and rested. For the weather to be warm enough. For adequate privacy...
A stress relief holds a little more worry. If he saystthat I need tears, it is going to be hard. But I can wait and hope he forgets.
A punishment is completely different. He tells me that I am going to be punished but there is no privacy. It doesn't get delayed, I get a hall pass. We don't have time before we have to leave for the Symphony. He gives me a hug and says that enjoying our date is more important.
I worry to much about punishment for there to be any delay. More than an hour is unreasonable. Dragon knows this.
Ps. A wait of another kind!
My application for a Mastiff has been accepted. Yeah! Now to save my pennies. This does not mean that I am obligated to buy a puppy from this breeder. Only that I am on her waiting list. I am still looking for a puppy from other sources and other breeds. Rescue organizations included. :-)
Now to wait....