Remember a post a little while ago about incomplete submission? How about the one where Dragon was talking about stepping up DD? Yes those two posts.
Yep, he sure did.
We hadn't even been in the new house two days before Dragon showed me just what was going to happen when I break a rule. I dropped the F bomb at the supper table. Frustrated, tired and ready for bed after a day of bored kids and an empty house. Nothing to entertain them, no hot water, not even a radio.
Why oh why did I do that? How dumb can I be? That was the VERY first DD rule. That is why DD even got started and I dropped it.
Supper continued without either one of us even acting like anything happened. After supper was a different story.
Out in the garage, away from the kids, Dragon let me know just what he thought about my dirty mouth. It was the worst spanking I have ever had. Other punishments had only been about 6 swats and that was a major spanking. I counted 7 hard ones. Then 10 and the they kept coming! I kept still and didn't complain. My Butt was on fire. It was so hard but I did it. Somewhere around 17 I lost count. Dragon said it was 25 but I can't be fore sure. Tears stung my eyes just from the sting.
I didn't beg my way out of it or make excuses. I didn't whine for it to stop or call him names. No hands grabbing at the paddle or hiding my backside. I took it!
Incomplete submission is easier but I am a little proud of myself.
Dragon told me that is now a mild spanking. We have been doing this DD thing for a while and it is time to step it up. Punishments need to be memorable so that they won't need to be repeated. Memorable? 25 hard swats with NO warm up isn't memorable? CRAP!
"Now that we live close to a big city don't forget your seat belt. If you ever do, you will find out how bad a spanking can really be."
Ummmm... I don't think I'll be forgetting my seat belt any time soon.
This is me avoiding that punishment!
found a snake in the garage today. eeekkkk i won't be going out there without Dragon! I HATE SNAKES! EEEEKKKKKK
On the bright side, it sounds like you've tested out the soundproofing in the new place!
ReplyDeletesoundproofing in the house? not so good. The garage is perfect minus the snake!
Deleteooh sorry about the snake! And the spanking? Although it seems like you were ready for things to step up, too, right? I'm so glad you have your own place and can practice DD completely again!
ReplyDeleteWe were both ready to get back to DD and yes, it was time to step it up. We both had to get our head around the reality of the lifestyle first. Baby steps have been good for us.
DeleteMh, for some reason I think that punishments need to be remembered even though I hate when it happens...
ReplyDeleteThis one was memorable for sure. I felt it for days!
DeleteYikes, sounds like Dragon means business! Better wear that seatbelt! Btw, welcome back and congrats on your new place! :)
ReplyDeleteI don't plan on ever forgetting my seat belt again. I thought the 6 swats I was getting was harsh but now he tells me 25 is mild. Yikes....
DeleteLove the new house but we are having problems with the old house up in Idaho. I am tempted to get a plane ticket and just go back up there and take care of stuff myself!
Welcome to my world, i have tried to suggest the warm up several times before I got the point....never gonna happen. Sounds like you handled it well, I had trouble not reaching back,that just gets my thighs bruised. The garage will never be the same.
ReplyDeleteDragon says that warm ups are for play not for punishments. He thinks it should hurt from the very first swat and if I want to avoid them, I know how to do it. Grrrr.
DeleteThe garage was a place filled with potential. Now it is a place to get my backside warmed. So much for a fun play space.