Sunday, June 30, 2013
Today is a BIG Day
Today my hair goes blue. Why? Because I can. Today is also the day I will be taking the before P90X pictures and my measurements. Scary stuff. July is about forming new, healthier habits and hopefully transforming my life. At 41 I am over weight. Back in November, I couldn't even walk down our short road to the mailbox without a break. Now I can walk 4 miles. What a difference. One day at a time. The plan is to do as much as I can and leave the rest.
Dragon is in a temper today. Wish I knew what was wrong. Days like this are why we we have safe words. Consent separates DD from abuse. That is a fine line to walk. I don't know how other couples can manage without them. Before every spanking I get asked for my safe word. If I say RED every thing stops. Even if it is a punishment. If we can't come to an agreement, it doesn't happen.
The world is now looking at us under the microscope of modern expectations and feminism. The feminist movement gives me the right to choose. Let's show the world who we are. So far the vanilla people who have visited my blog have given me positive feedback. I hope others in blogland are having a similar experience.
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One day at a time!! 4 miles is great!!!
ReplyDeleteBlue? Oh yay! Daddy said I can do mine purple! Not like Kelly Osbourne purple, more like a royal jewely purple.... have to find the right color....
ReplyDeleteYou are doing so well, Rose! I started with P90X, and I am a big girl. Then I moved onto the Chalene Johnson workouts, because I found them more productive and transformative for me personally. The beachbody trainers are the awesomesauce.
That's the funny thing about feminism. It was started as a movement to allow us choice. Some have turned it into the right to join group-think.
I hope your Dragon is feeling better, with you at his side I can't imagine the world influence will have hold for long. Our blog is still too young to be seen I think, but I'm edified that a majority of the vanilla comments I have seen have been supportive.
His China Doll
I have been using P90X for several years but I only had bits and pieces of the program. I have a nice big area of the garage cleaned up, a TV and Dragon made a stand for my weights. I am set.
ReplyDeleteI got Dragon busy in his work shop. No better therapy for him. Thanks
Cheering for you! Saw this and just had to come say, "Yea!" Your walking improvement is amazing!
ReplyDeleteThis post is great testimony to the improvements you've experienced in your relationship as a result of dd/ttwd. I'm really glad you're only getting positive comments.
Good for you for going blue because you can! I'll join in on the walking, and I kinda-sorta have my own ttwd-lite working here, but I'm a complete chicken about coloring my waist length hair blue. Yes, I'm gutless about my hair. Then there's the whole thing with my rotten family, whom I love dearly, who love to tease and would convince everybody it's an old lady's hair job gone very wrong! ;-)
Sorry Dragon is off his feed. I hope nothing is really wrong and he soon returns to a better mood.
Hugs,
Irishey
The color is temporary. It comes with bleach but I won't be bleaching my hair. Not yet anyway. My hair is waist length when I stretch the curls out. It would take forever to grow it back if I oopsed. I am sure that my family will have some rude comments to make but I have a few sarcastic replies ready for them.
DeleteFitness and a healthy marriage comes one step at a time. They both take work and dedication. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. It means so much.
Wish I could get myself so disciplined to exercise.
ReplyDeleteHaven't had any negative or positive feedback, just friends.
You can do it. All it takes is an early morning or evening stroll.
DeleteSo far I have only had two comments from the vanilla world. They both said no to DD but if I want to be spanked, go for it.
I am so proud of your success so far. Keep it up!!
ReplyDeleteHope life evens out for you and Dragon.
Hugs!
I now have a clean spot in the garage for my workout and I love my blue hair. Giggles. Now I need a big black rocket 88 to drive down the interstate at 20 mph.
DeleteYeah i've put on weight in the last 5 months. Sure is more fun putting it on then it is taking it off!! Lol glad your doing it... One day at a time is right!! Keep us posted
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