Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Amazon

Amazon is great.  LOVE IT!!!

Hermione's post about the dogging bat sent me on a search.

First was the dogging bat.  Yep, they have it for $13. Riding crops, paddles, floggers.Oh my.  They even have the NJoy plug I have been lusting after.  Bamboo spoons of all shapes and sizes, birch bundles, an endless selection of spatulas.

Oh my at all the tools of ass destruction.  Large, old fashioned hair brushes, flipflops.  Bull whips.  The list goes on.

How about restraints?  Silk scarves, ribbon, rope, tie downs and horse hobbles.  Belts are great for spanking and restraint.  Plastic zip ties, duct tape.

Oh wow.

Who would have thought that Amazon would be a place to shop for all things fun?

Giggles...  my wish list is interesting.  WEG

What is your favorite impact toy or kinky item on Amazon?

So many possibilities.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Trying Again

Grrr

I don't know why I am having such a hard time with fitness this time around.  I just can't seem to get into a routine.  It is a cycle and not a good one.

Work out slow and easy.
Increase intensity and duration slowly
Get impatient and really work out
Done

Takes about a week start to finish.

Today's work out doesn't sound like much but it is for me.  10 minutes on the treadmill set at 2.5, incline 3 and some stretching.

Not impressive but it is a place to start.

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Itsy Bitsy Spider

We were home.  The camper unpacked and the washer going.  Finally time for some play.

Dragon had my shirt off and straddling a chair.  Love my ladder back chairs.  I felt a little tickle on my foot but managed to ignore it.  This was a fun, feel good scene.    Light tapping across my shoulders and back.

That light tickle on my foot continued.  I finally took a good look.

SPIDER!!!

With a squeal, I knocked it to the floor and Dragon killed it.  We tried to continue the scene.  It was just starting to get good but the spider killed the mood.

Oh well

It was nice while it lasted.

Friday, July 25, 2014

Camping

It was a whirlwind trip but a nice change of pace.  Two nights.  Three days.

Years ago we decided that three days just wasn't enough to enjoy camping.  It was all we had.  We can't afford more time away from work.  I'll take what I can get.

 We went to a lake a ways from home
 I think Sunny may have mentioned it in a prior post.  Walking trails, swimming and fishing.  Even with 4 dogs and three teenagers, we still had fun.

Dragon caught 4 bass.  I could see him relaxing with that fishing pole in his hand.  The kids and puppies played in the water.We avoided the public beaches . More private and the puppies could go for a swim.  I think my little rescue puppy found every stick in our little cover.

Unfortunately, the 50 Shades preview was released when I had limited access to the internet.  The first thing I did when we for home was to watch it. The Twilight feely parts are there but from what I can see, it will be a much better movie.  I'll wait for it to come out on Netflix.

Time to start cleaning up and get the house and camper CDO organized.  I am in desperate need if order.  Hopefully, after his nap, Dragon will feel like playing.

A girl can hope.

I know that I broke several rules while we were gone.  I hope he overlooks them and makes it fun.  :-)

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Tune-up

Since I objected to calling that weekly, just because spanking mantainance, Dragon decided to give it a new name.

A tune-up.

Further proof that TTWD is finally back.

I almost forgot to take my morning asthma meds again!  An hour late, I took them but I didn't forget!

We are busy this morning. Running around, rushing for no reason in a near panic.  No real reason for the panic.  It just is...

Dragon decided to take it to the seat of the problem with a tune-up.  Off to the garage we went.  Bare bottom, over the chair and not his lap.  He says that he gets a better swing that way.

Week

I lost count of the swats.  Since it wasn't a punishment, I got a short warm up.  But wowza did that ever sting.  On an already sore bottom, Dragon made sure I had a sore reminder to behave.

This is after a long, fun scene last night.

I am not sitting comfortably today and I have a huge smile on my face.

Purrrfect

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

The Punishment

The first one in a VERY long time.  I confessed knowing what Dragon would do.  He is punishing me because it is what I need and because it will benefit both of us.

Pre spanking.

I know it is coming but I'm not nervous.  This isn't an erotic or fun spanking but I am aroused.  My backside tingles in anticipation.  Eat, get the kids and animals put to bed and then we take care of businesses.

 I am doing this entry a little different.  It is going into a draft folder until latter.  It is getting written in stages. Before, the actual spanking, after and the next day.   Not sure if I am going to share this one.  I'll have to wait and see.

Sunday night was a bust. We had a very busy day and had no interest in spanking but the love making sure was nice.  Even had some extra fun sprinkles on top.

Monday after supper, Dragon led me to the garage.

It was time.

No preparation.
No anticipation
Just down to businesses

 I still didn't get nervous. Just a bit shy when he told me to drop my pants.  I don't know why that is worse than completely nude but that puddle of fabric around my feet brothers me.

He pushed my panties down and placed my hands in a chair.  OTK is reserved for fun.  5 swats and none of them gentile.  Not the worst I have ever had.  Then one more because I forgot my asthma meds when I left the house.

No huge scolding.  Dragon is more of the strong silent type but the message came across loud and clear.  DD is not gone.

My backside has that after spanking ache that I have missed so much.  I know this has to sound crazy but I hope there is more to come.  :-)

The Morning After

My backside is just a little sore.  Walking around is fine but I feel it when I sit in our kitchen chairs.

No drastic after effects for this one but I didn't go into it emotional.  It was matter-of-fact tending to business.  Cleansing, good, humbaling but not earth shaking.

This morning, over breakfast, Dragon let me know that there is more to come tonight.  Another spanking on an already sore bottom.  (Those swats were as gentile as a lightening strike). I can choose what kind of spanking I get by my actions today.

Yep, all I had to do was let him remember how good dd is for both of us.

He is back!!!
Domestic Discipline is back
Fun, just because spankings are back

I miss the floggers but it is probably a good thing that they are out of service.  Paddle, rod, belt or hand on the backside. That is the only choice right now.  No feel good flogging.  A bare bottom spanking always comes with a extra level of submission that flogging is missing.

Call me crazy but I asked Dragon for help with something else.  I keep forgetting my asthma meds.  I procrastinate then it is to late in the day.

I feel much better when I am 100% consistent with the meds.  I notice a difference with even just one missed dose.  So it has become an accountability issue.  Just like seatbelt use.  No warnings, no second chance and no excuces.

I asked for it and with the look on Dragon's face, he has no problem taking it to the seat of the problem.  My memory mysteriously improves when my bottom is on the line.

Time to get busy.  I need to work on the curtains and inventory the kitchen.

Today is starting out great.

Monday, July 21, 2014

Reset

Dragon has declared this to be reset week.  With a few days off it is the perfect time to do it.  We are settled in and making bills. The kids are back in activities and the chaos level is set to high.  Situation Normal.  Now it is time to get back on track.

Dragon mentioned BDSM, kink, D/s and DD.  We had a long talk about work, schedules and just being to busy.  But when we are to busy to take care of us, everyone pays the price.

I need his dominance and so does he.  He needs my submisdion as much as i need to submit.  He needs a place where he is in control and I need a place that I am not in control at all.

It all works together to make us both better and to keep our marriage secure.

Last night he was to tired to take care of business until I got into bed completely nude.  His tune changed fast.  I didn't get the much needed punishment but we spent over an hour making love.  It has been a long time since he pushed my limits so hard.  Just WOW

and here I thought he wasn't listening and didn't want this lifestyle anymore.

Fooled me!

There won't be any time for spanking this evening or tomorrow.  That hasn't stopped Dragon today.  As he was leaving for work he gave me a to do list and a reminder to obey.  Toothpaste on the clit burns but doesn't last long.  He left with a smile on his face and my lady parts burning.

A girl can hope.

The pantry is getting reorganized.  That has turned into a group effort. I did my half and now the kids are working away in there.  Now it is time to work on the curtains for the camper.  Lots to do.