It just isn't appealing for me. My monthlies are very irregular, power surges happen several times a day, mood swings are a fact of life and I not in the mood for sex. I say yes to play but it does absolutely nothing for me. Dry as a bone and thinking about just getting it over with.
I know. I am a horrible wife. Maybe I should take the advice of the Victorian mother and think of England. Or maybe fake it like a porn star.
I am set to zero.
Cuddling is more my speed but only if he doesn't make a grand for previously sensitive spots.
I have tried to talk to Dragon. I understand his frustration and I know he thinks that I'm not listening. I'm not sure he is listening to me.
I can't even get into a spanking or a good flogging.
I don't know what to do. Feeling a little lost right now.
Hugs, you guys will figure it out soon.
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I know it is hormone related but that doesn't make it easier.
DeleteI just want you to encourage you to keep talking to Dragon. And your friends who may have some advice from going through the same thing. Also, perhaps your doctor because of the mood swings and your messed up cycles... might be something safe and natural to really help you... perhaps visit a well known health food store where the employees might give you some advice that you can research on the internet to make sure it is sound. Best wishes! Hang in there! This, too, shall pass!
ReplyDeleteI know but it is still hard. This too shall pass. Hopefully I come out the other side if this with a good attitude. I'm just as bad as my teenage daughter
DeleteIt is hard...I have been there...the hot flashes , the not desire...it is not easy...and the only advice I have is read and share with Dragon....the good news...once you are all over that crap....I discovered sex was a whole lot better...I was much more responsive....hugs abby
ReplyDeleteThanks Abby, I am so tired of this crap. I just want it over. I've had my kids. I would go to the doctor if I thought they would just take everything out and get it over with.
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